The "First Date"

As I am getting ready to leave I find myself looking in the mirror checking my outfit. Is it too flashy? Is it too soft? Can this shirt be a distraction? I hesitate to put on cologne. I don’t want to smell but I also don’t want to offend my “date” or the parents.
Meeting my “date” for the first time is nerve racking enough. As I get dressed, gather stuff, it is not just about what I am wearing it is more about, “Are we going to connect?”
Then I start thinking about the parents…… “What are they going to think about me? How will they react to my questions, comments, and will they know I truly want the best for their child?”
When I ring the bell, my heart pounds faster. Will I cause the child to have maladaptive behaviors? Will I speak to loud or is the color of the shirt I’m wearing, not his favorite color?
It is a big deal to let anyone in your home but for a parent of a child with autism, I have to believe it is even more of a challenge. I have been in many homes and each door that is opened for me, I am so grateful. Mom’s and dad’s I thank you all for the opportunity to work with your children and adults.
If you haven’t read my blogs, or know what I do, I develop exercise programs for children and adults on the autism spectrum. I have been doing it for 6 years and am grateful to impact the lives of these children.
I chose to write this blog because of the last two times I have worked with new families this is exactly how I have been feeling. As parents, do you feel the same?

Thanks again to all that have given me the opportunity to work with the children or organization. Exercise plays an important role in our children’s development.

Talk soon!

David